Relationship Mentorship
The state of relationships on this planet is abysmal at best. We don’t know how to communicate. We don’t know how to appreciate one another. We don’t even know how to love. Our relationships are just transactions. 'I'll give you this much love if you prove this to me first. I'll show you my feelings if you show me yours first.' This isn't love, it's prison.
The truth is, love is the ultimate form of freedom. When you truly let yourself be seen; when you allow yourself to completely open up, THAT’S freedom. Does that sound terrifying to you? Don’t worry, we can work on that.
You may not know this yet, but relationships can be calm and harmonious, and they can simultaneously be exciting as f*ck. When you feel safe in your partnership, it opens up a whole new level of intimacy. What you can create from there will surpass your wildest imagination.
What is Love?
We are all under the impression that love is something you find in someone else. But that's not how it works. Love is actually a renewable resource that exists all around us, we've just never had the tools to mine it properly. It starts by digging into your own psyche and learning to accept who you are. This is what we call "filling your own cup."
Most people don't know how to do this, so they go looking for love in others. Everything becomes about what that person can DO for you and vice versa. You rely on the other to reflect your worth and prove that you are lovable. Hence the transactional nature of relationships. When you step out of this paradigm and bankroll your own inner light, your cup overflows. Then you’ll be happy to give to another and stop relying on them to "give you what you need." THIS is when you become irresistible, magnetic, and a powerhouse beyond measure. This is when you open up the door to receiving love without boundaries. I can show you how….
The Perfect Relationship
Allow yourself to imagine the perfect mate. Close your eyes and picture this person’s face. Hear the comforting sound of their voice telling you that you’re everything they ever wanted and more. Feel their eyes looking right through to your soul. Now open your eyes…do you believe you can have this? Does it feel out of reach? I promise you it’s not.
I didn’t intentionally set out to crack the code to deep, self-sourced love, but that’s what happened on my journey of personal development. And once I did, my perfect mate found me immediately. I have never experienced such a peaceful yet exhilarating connection. I catch my husband staring at me with adoration, and when our eyes meet he smiles and says “I am a lucky man.” Who knew this existed?!? I always thought that love had to be hard and painful. Turns out, that’s not love, that’s something else.
If you found your ideal person today are you confident you would know what to do to create a lasting partnership? Have you found this person already, but feel stuck in moving forward? Did you even marry this person and now they feel like a stranger? I can help!
I am a Medicine Woman
Whether you are single, in a relationship or married, I know you are capable of creating meaningful connections, but not using outdated methods and modalities. Human Design is my tool of choice. It is an awareness cultivating magical system that helps unlock your true nature, while also revealing some of your deepest insecurities. There’s no reward without some upheaval. Facing your truth can be excruciating at times, and worth every tear. On the other side of pain is forgiveness, empathy and self love. This is the portal to inner peace. THIS is the potent medicine.
Human Design is a whole new way of looking at yourself and others. It is a way to take personal responsibility for what went on in your partnerships. This doesn't mean you are here to shoulder the blame for your past. You are simply here to see the helplessness of your conditioning, and course-correct in a powerful way. Your past does not have to be a life sentence.
Let's Work Together!
UNDERSTAND YOURSELF
Over the course of this 6 month program you will have 4 zoom calls per month with me with voicenote/text support between calls.
The first 3 months is for diving deep into your own process
We will look at the charts of those you grew up around
You will have a chance to unpack how you've been conditioned to think about relationships
HONOR OTHERS
This is a healing process. When you commit to your growth, and invest your energy, magic is possible!
During the second half of the program we explore the dynamics of past partnerships
There is so much wisdom in reflecting on previous dynamics through an objective lens
You will walk away with the communication tools you need to create harmony and safety in all relationships
What YOU Create
I used to be just like you. I was in and out of relationships, and not ever feeling satisfied. I even gave marriage a shot; that was a bust. It wasn’t until I cracked through my own bullshit that I saw where I was going wrong. I was expecting my partner to read my mind, do my bidding, and change to suit my needs. It was as transactional as going to a restaurant. If HE wasn’t what I ordered I would send him back. Rinse and repeat. That's what we ALL do, hopping from one relationship to the next hoping next time will be different. But nothing will be
different until YOU'RE different.
I realize now that I had to go through all of that so you don't have to. I ran my marriage into the ground so you don't have to. I dealt with narcisistic relationships so you don't have to. I felt terribly lonely and disconnected so you don't have to. Human Design can show you the person you came here to be, and then live that out with authenticity. Once you are a living breathing representation of your highest self (not the perfect version of you) you will be completely alluring to everyone in your orbit. THIS is when love will arrive, and you will be completely prepared to welcome it with open arms.
TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP
Book a Discovery Call
I understand that this is a leap of faith. Perhaps you've already tried many things, and nothing seemed to help. I want to make sure this is the right fit for you. Let's hop on a call and get to know each other. Then you can decide if and when this kind of mentorship is correct for you.
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
Hear from current and former clients
Understanding my own process, and also my sweet husband's chart changed everything. I talk to him all the time about what I learn through Human Design, and we simply marvel at how much it has helped our communication.
Kim Matullo
Production Accountant
I call Zsuzsi the relationship screamer because EVERYTHING she said resonated so well. My mind was blown every step of the way. I feel so much more confident about dating and putting myself out there.
Chardé Smith
Web Developer
Through this work I was able to see my partner for the unique person that they are within their design. I learned about both of out HD charts and how to bring out our strengths based on what we are, not for what we think each other is. It is not personal, it's chemical. Thank you Zsuzsi!
Kelly Cole
Entrepreneur
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